Blog Link Up - SEN special

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This is a link up with a difference - although most of what I blog about here is adoption related, this time I’d like to invite SEN bloggers to link up with me. Both of my children (one adopted, one not) have Special Educational Needs and I’ve learned a huge amount from bloggers and tweeters who offer their insights and expertise online.

Please see below to add your blog, and CLICK HERE to tweet and let me know you’ve added it :)
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