October half term blog link up!

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Thank you to everyone who linked their blog up last time - it was great to catch up with blogs I hadn’t read in a while and also to read some new ones!

This link up is a half term special, and it’s open for the whole week. Don’t feel you have to write about half term specifically, but I know in our house holidays are a difficult time and it would be good to hear how other people manage this!

I’m trying something new this time and I’ve added a ‘like’ feature - I’ll do a shout out to the ‘top three’ posts with the most likes at the end of the week!

See below to add your blog, and CLICK HERE to tweet me that you’ve added it!

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